Maximum Joy!
At 7:46 a.m. on February 20, 2024, I received one of life’s greatest blessings—a healthy baby boy named Pier Maximilian, who we fondly call Max. He’s named after Blessed Pier Giorgio Frassati and Saint Maximilian Kolbe, two holy men my wife and I deeply admire. Reflecting on that day, I recall never ceasing in my prayers to our Lord and seeking the intercession of Our Lady, Mother Mary, for my wife and Max’s safety during labor and delivery. I called upon and begged help from every saint we know, praying, “Just keep them safe and healthy.” It was a moment filled with both intense difficulty and immense relief, especially for Karen, my wife. But by God’s grace, she made it through that long labor.
The first few days with Baby Max were also challenging as we were unprepared for the complications of postpartum recovery. During this time, Karen struggled with the pain from her stitches, breastfeeding, and maintaining her mental health. Although she had a normal delivery, she had undergone a third-degree tear and an episiotomy, adding significantly to her discomfort. Simple tasks like sitting, moving, or using the bathroom became difficult, and the pain was far more intense than she had expected. Breastfeeding was another source of pain; each time we tried to latch Max, it hurt her deeply due to his oral ties. It was hard to imagine her pain and sacrifices, but I’m forever grateful for Karen’s fighting spirit—she’s the Karen I know, who never gives up.
As a father, I knew I had to step up. I had to be there for them constantly, pouring all my energy into supporting them—preparing meals, running errands, putting Max to sleep, and changing diapers. I’m not a perfect father, but those moments pushed me to become better. They pushed me to deepen the love I give them. God allowed me to love them in a way they truly deserve.
It’s true that having a baby changes everything. Life is no longer what it was when it was just me and my wife. Everything—sleeping, eating, working, going out— now adjusts and revolves around our new life with Max. Yes, it requires a lot of adjustments, but if you are a new parent, please know it’s always worth it. Don’t be afraid of the changes because, in time, you’ll adjust, just like every parent does. You just need to step up your game.
Now, Max is almost six months old. He’s a cheerful boy who smiles at everyone he sees. We’re overjoyed that so many people love him. Our love for him has deepened our love for each other and strengthened our marriage and family. From budgeting for Max to planning vacations and events, everything we do now is united by our love for him. His smile and milestones never fail to melt our hearts. Even now, we’re still in awe that the Lord blessed us with a healthy baby boy who brings maximum joy wherever he goes. He is truly a beautiful manifestation of God’s love for us. Indeed, life is a wonderful blessing.
